MAILBOX: Rude Malaysians don’t know how to queue

Wednesday, November 18th, 2009 02:24:00
Mark of Honour

MARK OF HONOUR: Japanese queueing up for the train. – Filepic

IT makes me quite sad to hear on the radio these days how we Malaysians need to be reminded to be patient
and courteous on the roads.

As the announcer states, giving way to other motorists would at most delay our journeys by an average 40 seconds. In the overall scheme of things, waiting 40 seconds does not really cause us much harm and can in fact reduce our stress levels.

This is already the practice among residents in most developed countries that we Malaysians keep on aspiring to emulate, but fail to actually follow in both thought and spirit. It’s no wonder then that we keep hearing the constant refrain of ‘world class facilities, but third class mentality’ being applied to ourselves!

This rude practice also extends to how we supposedly queue up at various points. How many times have you seen commuters actually queueing up to board a bus, train or the LRT?

Granted that the public transport system needs major improvement, but a quick look at how things are done in Japan will put many of us to shame.

The crowd of commuters there waiting to board the trains are far more than what we have in Malaysia.

Yet, the overall situation in Japan’s train stations is far less chaotic – because the passengers actually make it a point to stay in their queues. This is because the Japanese see it as a mark of politeness and honour to stay in the queue – as only uncouth barbarians would shove and push their way forward while others have been waiting patiently.

From this viewpoint, we Malaysians definitely have a long way to go before we can be seen as being refined and having a world class mentality.

Even when some actually make an effort to form queues, it only takes one errant person skipping forward to trigger off a chaotic situation as the herd mentality kicks in.

This behaviour is especially galling as our schoolchildren actually keep to their queues in schools, but their parents often tell them to do otherwise in public.

Is this how we want to perpetuate this poor image of a rude Malaysian into the next generation?

Maybe it’s time for concerned individuals to take the first step of setting virtuous examples for others to follow. Since many of us now use cellphones fitted with cameras, it would be interesting to see how many images of rude Malaysians cutting queues can then be seen at various blogsites.

 

Michael Wong
Rawang

Comments

Ladies and Gents of Malaysian Soil, open your mouth and speak up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Talking will change a lot ways in life. We will learn to have Malaysian values, respect for each other. So, I hope, all of us will at least speak up and let others know that we mean business instead of complaining. Time to act

Submitted by Anonymous on Sunday, December 13th, 2009.
I do agree with the suggestion to have cctvs on roads, but real ones so that summons can be sent to the offender for jumping queue. Maybe this will generate enough income and the government will forsake the decision on the GST.

Submitted by Anonymous on Friday, December 4th, 2009.
It happens everywhere. The most irritating is on the road. Funny thing is, most of the queue jumpers seems to be highly educated, driving big and expensive cars. My suggestion is put dummy CCTVs in places where people most likely to queue jump. People change their attitudes when they think the authority is watching them.

Submitted by Anonymous on Thursday, November 26th, 2009.
Being a Malaysian I am lost for words on how to describe fellow Malaysian when it comes etiquette. I am ashamed. Queue jumping, be it on the road or LRT stations, rude words, mountain of food on their plates in any buffet, not flushing toilets...these are some of the "Normal" behaviors that we have to endure in our everyday life.. BUT..go and look at any 4D outlet...especially in the evening on any draw day, you will be surprised how the punters obediently queue.. what a contrast...

Submitted by Anonymous on Thursday, November 26th, 2009.
Queueing is a basic etiquette people teach to their children. Unfortunately, in Malaysia we wonder whether all the queue jumpers are really raised by people. Perhaps it's a case of 'orang-utan' instead of 'orang'?

Submitted by RLA on Thursday, November 19th, 2009.
not having the sense to que is not uniquely a m'sian phenomenon. try italy or greece or india or china. btw, japan puts many countries to shame in their discipline.

Submitted by Anonymous on Thursday, November 19th, 2009.
Do not try to compare whatever we do here with Japan and also no countries in the world can be like Japan. The Japanese are very discipline people in the world. Look at our political parties, they are a big joke and what do expect from the rakyat when the political parties jumping around like frogs.

Submitted by Queue on Wednesday, November 18th, 2009.
i had wasted more than half an hour everyday just because of some stupid queue jumpers at federal and loke yew highway. should they queue up, i think my journey should be shorter. sadly, no police were there and the one that was there were doing nothing but watch.

Submitted by Kenny_Lim on Wednesday, November 18th, 2009.

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